Author: lauratria

What is The Feminine Rising?

Many including myself, see that the Feminine is Rising.  It can sound like the beginning of a Women vs. Men war.  It can sound like a kind of take over by the female of the species.  It can sound threatening in many ways because of how we’ve been conditioned.  We’ve been conditioned that men and women are against each other.  We’ve been conditioned to think that femininity solely belongs to women and masculinity solely belongs to men.  We’ve been conditioned to think that everything feminine has to do with a soft, passive and of weak nature.  We’ve been conditioned that everything masculine has to do with sharp edges, narrow thinking and aggressive behavior.  This kind of thinking brings us to odds with each other and within ourselves.

It is time for us to look at femininity and masculinity differently so that femwallwe can better understand the changes that are occurring all over our planet.  As I’ve said in a previous article, we, both genders, contain masculine and feminine attributes.  Yes, for the most part women are the nurturers and men are the protectors and all that… however, a person in balance is a person, male or female, that can freely bring out all sides of their personality.

Assertion, confidence and strength in character are among our many masculine traits.  Compassion, intuition and emotion are among our many feminine traits.  Can you imagine the individual who expresses confidence and strength in the midst of their tears? Or using compassion and intuition, a judge that is able to assert justice for all?

Crying is not a sign of weakness. It is a necessary emotion that allows us to express and release our tight or sad or angry energy.  Anger is healthy when it is balanced with conscious action.

obamaConsider that, ‘The Feminine Rising’, is bringing about a balance in human nature. For too long, we have been living and understanding life through what many call ‘the Patriarchy’.  It is living within the masculine energy as if that were the better, smarter way of being. We’ve been living in the idea of bigger and better regardless of the consequences of our actions.  The Matriarchy voice is rising.  She is the voice that takes a stand for our planet.  She is the voice that says rather than bigger and better, how bout enough for all and harm to none.

My boyfriend and I watched a television show this weekend that highlighted an interview of a young man (perhaps in his 30’s) who created a thriving business by making people comfortable at work.  Flexible hours.  Open kitchens.  Colorful desk areas and lounges.  He is one of a growing trend in business professionals. This is business with a compassion for human needs instead of just the ‘bottom line’.  How very different is that from the old fashioned colorless cubical and strict environment.  Business is booming and the staff is healthy and happy.  This is business incorporating both masculine and feminine considerations.

Many millennial households have fathers and mothers taking on the care of their children and house hold duties as well as both partners keeping their careers.  This is a balance in partnership. Fathers are as necessary for parenting as mothers.  Mothers providing for their families allows them to come to their full potential.  Fathers taking a bigger role in the daily activity of their kids allows them to mature their nurturing expression and connection to family.

The feminine rising in our governments means more care for the earth and her inhabitants.  It means less greed and more cooperative decision making.

femenYes, the feminine is rising.  My wish for you is to let go of the old paradigms and allow a more balanced approach to life.  I conclude my articles asking you to learn from the ancients.  The ancients knew we all had purpose.  They knew that each of us being in balance brings out the best in us as individuals, tribes and communities.  It is balance that will bring us into harmony with ourselves and others.  We’ve gotten so far from balance and it is obvious to me that balance is on its way back.  Embrace it!  Go for it!  We just might see Utopia in our lifetime.

Human Nature

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As this season changes and the climates and atmospheres around the world are in chaos and flux, I am intimately reminded of just how connected we all are to the nature that surrounds us. I say intimately because I, like many of you, have an emotional and physical reaction to what is going on in the atmosphere. We’ve had two tremendous storms hit our continent. Before they hit, while they were still churning and building their vortex of power, my clients were calling in with different concerns. “Rev. Laura, I am feeling extremely tired.” “I feel so edgy, like I’m ready to snap at anyone for anything.” “I feel weepy and I find I am crying a lot for no apparent reason.” None of this surprised me. In fact, I expected it.

Once again and I’m speaking generally, most of us, womyn and men, are attached or at least affected by the atmosphere. For some, it is common knowledge. We say, I know when a storm is coming or when it is going to rain because my joints become tender. How many times have you heard someone say they want to move out west cause it ‘feels’ better. We also acknowledge that our emotions are governed by the phases of the moon. Lots of us are a bit ‘off’ when the moon is full. She regulates all the water on our planet, including the fluid in our bodies. When the water in our body’s rise, our organs shift and it throws us off. This is acceptable and understandable. Emergency rooms are busier when it’s a full moon. The word Lunatic correlates with the full moon and our reactions to it. This is not a surprise to anyone.wolf.jpg

Knowing all this, we shouldn’t be so surprised that we are affected by storms, and sunny days as well. It’s not really said out loud. In fact, when it is said, many people ignore it as if it is yet another new age/old myth. Some of us are aware that we are affected by the movement and alignment of the planets and stars. We secretly look at our horoscopes with earnest while pretending that it is just play. Yet, it is true that we are affected and connected. All of us are connected to all of nature, the earth and the heavens.

Although it is rarely put into words, as soon as young womyn start their physical cycle, they begin an inner knowing of their connectedness. It’s unfortunate that we are not taught to regard our mood swings and sensitivities as normal. I am not speaking of extreme personality disorders that are diagnosed as chemical imbalances. I am speaking of the general moods, emotional ebbs and flows of our psyche that happen on a regular basis. No need for drugs. No need for diagnosis. No need to wonder, “What’s wrong with me!”. All we have to do is become aware. We get pulled and tugged by the atmosphere just as the trees and waters, insects and animals do.

spider wedb.jpgOne of the differences between us and the four legged and winged ones, is that they prepare for it. Many of our pets become docile when the weather is gloomy. Dogs for sure tend to fear the sound of thunder. Thunder is dangerous. They know it. Spiders build webs when the winds are coming. They know food will get blown into those webs. Birds disappear when the winds and rain come. They stop chirping well before the first drops show up.

When we are ignorant of the ‘mood’ shifts that happen during inclement weather, we react with fear or aggression. People may be snappy and we snap back and criticize instead of pausing for a moment and realizing that perhaps there is more going on than meets the eye. When we are a bit ‘off’, things may seem exaggerated. Traffic may seem more horrendous than usual. Road rage, could easily be on the rise. The cashier may not greet us with a smile and on this occasion we take it personally and that can ripple over to the next person we come in contact with. We don’t like the way things are running at home and our spouse better watch out because we react instead of pausing to open to the fact that we may not really be fully in control. We actually may not ‘lord’ over nature. She in fact, may be lording over us.

When we take the time to read, learn and explore the ancient civilizations and the Indigenous cultures, we start to take back our own wisdom and knowledge. Human beings are part of nature. The more we are aware of who we are and the role we play in this vast universe, the more we can learn how to be. I mention these small individual reactions to what may be triggered by the nature that surrounds us. There are much larger consequences to our moods as well. Remember, life is the same on every level large and small. Wars start with just one person. One argument. One set of circumstances.

Try being patient with yourself and others. Perhaps you may want to hold off on making any huge choices when the atmosphere is electric. Perhaps you may want to hold back on reacting to anything and in place of reacting, take a breath. Observe what’s going on around you. Don’t be the tree that doesn’t know how to bend and instead breaks. Or the roof that allows itself to be blown off. Breathe… pause… take it easy. Respect that you are not isolated. Know that you are part of It All.

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At the Vancouver Peace Summit, the Dalai Lama said something that ricocheted around the globe. He said that he is a feminist. And he opined that Western women will save the world. How will we do that, you might ask. We will do it by knowing ourselves and acting from the truer knowledge of who we are as feminine creatures on this planet.

There are many inspirational quotes about knowing thyself. From Socrates to the Apostle John to Ann Landers and Debbie Ford, all urge us to know our true self so that we can master our lives. To really know ones’ self, it helps to know our physical origins as well as our emotion and spiritual origins. Our foundations are what we stand on. And many women and men are not aware of the main stages of a women’s life. When we realize the true and innate capabilities of women, we will see how they can balance and shape our lives and the entire planet in a healthier way. This is NOT a competitive statement between women and men. It is an urgent statement saying it is time to realize women for all they are in our personal, professional and global lives. In general, we hold women back from being all they are naturally capable of being.

In ancient, indigenous and tribal times, knowing, respecting and allowing women’s abilities and cycles to flourish, life was more manageable, peaceful and productive. To our modern-day minds, this may sound archaic or even absurd. However, I urge us all to look at what may be truth. The following is a brief description of the three main stages of the Feminine. Look and allow yourself to hear from a space that knows we need change on our planet.

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A women’s first stage is as Maidens. We are born with never ending imagination and blossoming energy. Chronologically, a Maiden is the time from birth till adolescence. Maidens are little girls! They have imaginary friends, questions about everything and their minds are open to fantasy as reality. In our society we are taught that as we grow up, we should put away our fantasies and childlike ideals. What a shame this is. Now, fast forward to our 21st century and we are studying the ‘Law of Attraction’ in hopes of re-learning how to use our imaginations to create our reality. We were never intended to lose who we were as maidens. Maidenhood forms the foundation by which we learn how to manifest life. All our life stages are meant to reside and live on within us. In life’s plan, a child is as important as an adult and an adult is as important as an elder.
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As we reach adolescence, we begin the process of moving into our Mother stage. Mother takes on many meanings NOT just the miraculous job of birthing and raising a child. Consider that women are capable of birthing and raising life on an intellectual, social, professional and personal level. They embody all of life. The duration of this stage may be the longest most powerful period of our lives. Physically, our bodies start to mature. Unfortunately, someone says, “It’s time to put your toys aside” and there is often a grieving that goes on internally that is never recognized. We find ourselves in therapy years later trying to heal the child within. It’s complicated yet for generations we’ve been silent about this pivotal part of being a woman. It’s like we ignore EVERYTHING?! No wonder women lose their identity. In the United States and in a heterosexual marriage, a woman gives up her last name to her spouse. First, we lose our identity in adolescence and then we secure that loss in discarding our name. It’s subliminal, yet powerful. It may make it easier for paperwork, but it wreaks havoc on our self- knowing and self worth.

When a young womyn starts her bleeding cycle, she is innately forced, not by humanity, but rather by nature, to become responsible. There is no getting away from it. Each of us becomes responsible for, at the very least, the calendar. We make sure to plan our lives around our cycle. Our weddings, vacations, parties and even a day at the beach is all wrapped up in knowing our cycle. Our bodies, minds and spirits are constantly in flux. Responsibility and management are designed into our physiology. Consider these innate attributes in business or in global affairs.

As I’ve said before, entire tribes and communities created their calendars to follow the cycles of the moon and the cycle of the women’s bodies. The Sun calendar that we follow today is a disconnect from our natural rhythms.

In the Mother stage of life, the feminine creature is also designed to multi-task. Allow yourselves to imagine back to pre-historic years, think of our ancient ancestors. We gave birth and instinctively took care of the little creatures. If we ignored them, they would surely die. Our brains were developed to think for two or more. It wasn’t a choice. It was necessary for life to continue.

One of the differences between the female and male brain is the use of the white and gray matter that the brain is made up of. The female brain uses more of the ‘white’ matter. It is this white matter that allows us to be more intuitive to our surroundings. (While this is scientific fact, I do not like to totally generalize. There are many men that are sensitive to their surroundings and of course, there are women who are insensitive to others. It’s just not as common). This white matter is what allows us to be more verbally expressive.

Another quality of our Mother years is the fullness and power of our energy and vibration. Whether we choose to have children or not, we go into a state of self-sacrifice and nurture for the sake of keeping something alive. That something will birth and nurture our careers, our lovers, our hobbies, our homes and our communities.

When we are ignorant of the dynamics of the mother stage of life, we can misinterpret our desire to self-sacrifice and nurture and unfortunately, we may tend to think it is our only way of being. We easily get caught up in the idea that women were meant to think of themselves last or second to the thing or person that we are nurturing. This is a distorted understanding of what it is to be a woman. Knowing our truer HerStory can assist us in evolving into a new more accurate paradigm and a healthier version of womanhood.

The Mother years are powerfully filled with vital life energy. Women in their mother stage collaborating on any project, personal, professional or communal, flow through the tasks at hand and reach their goals with ease. Women as activists, inventors, teachers, politicians and all other careers are most energetically powerful during their mother years. As women, we are learning to honor women in all the roles that we play. The more we do this; the more we teach others to honor women, the more this planet will reflect harmony and balance.

It is also evident to me that women isolate and overwork themselves with little to no emotional and physical reward. They push and push and push to do more and more and more on their own. The old commercial, ‘I can run our home, bring home the bacon and never let you forget you’re a man’ is fun and true and it is killing us! We were not meant to do it alone. Women are designed to group. Those coffee cloches are not just playtime. There is an exchange of powerful feminine energy and oxytocin and knowledge that allows us to grow each other naturally. When we come together in our efforts, each walk away fuller, happier and rejuvenated to bring forth more healthy energy for all.

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Chronologically, we begin our Crone years when our bleeding stops. Just like the other two stages of our Feminine life, it doesn’t happen overnight. There are emotional changes, physical changes and spiritual changes that gradually move us from self-sacrifice and constant nurture to a more self-concerned way of being. In this society, it is unfortunate that we can go through an enormous feeling of guilt as we innately don’t want to take care of everyone or everything anymore. It is confusing when we don’t realize that we are simply complete with that stage. We don’t go back to maidenhood and a feeling of care free; however, we notice that innately we want offspring and spouses to take care of themselves while we tend to ourselves more.

Cronehood is a time of personal freedom and reflection. It’s a time to look over our lives and our lessons and embrace all we’ve learned. A wise Crone is someone to look to for her well-earned wisdom. She no longer has anything to prove. It’s her time to give back. This is a perfect position for political and familial guidance and not a nursing home!

An article can only accomplish tapping the surface of any subject. I encourage you to read, explore and discover different knowledge that can help change the paradigm we live in. My suggestion for your further reading is ‘Jean Shinoda Bolen, M.D. author of The Urgent message from Mother. Gather the Women, Save the World.

Modesty?

 

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I know exactly where my eyes darted and held a pause. Where did your eyes dart and hold a pause?  I know exactly what ran through my mind. 

What ran through your mind before your started reading this article? If you don’t know what your immediate thoughts were, look again.  Let it land and then, lets discuss this.

Yesterday I experienced yet another growth or expansion within my studies of HerStory.   I am an Interfaith Minister and founder of New Light Sanctuary, LLC.  Under that umbrella, I teach and ordain other people who feel they have a calling to ‘serve’.  My classes are experiential as well as lectural. In service, I feel it is necessary to understand people as well as religions and theologies.  Yesterday we had a panel of women in conversation.  Our panel consisted of all types of women. Puerto Rican, European, Italian, Muslim, African and Hindi.  We had older and younger women.  These women were from varied educational and economical backgrounds. The conversation was enlightening.  We spoke of the role that appearance plays in our lives.

I was sadly surprised to hear that, across the board, in this year 2017, appearance still is the first and the most outstanding instrument by which we measure the quality of our lives. It is still the first thing that defines us.  Well, not all of us, but for sure, most of us. The women spoke honestly about how they judge another and feel judged by how they dress, what vehicle they drive, and the zip code that they live in.  They said they didn’t want to ‘judge’ another that way, but that in this world, it is the reality that how you look determines how you are received.  I could argue that this is just an opinion and then, there are the facts. In America, regardless of position or intelligence, we slaughter our female leaders with gossip about their looks.  On our panel, we agreed that when we see Muslim women dressed in hijab, it is hard for us to see past their garb.   We spoke of our youth and how disappointed we are that little girls are growing up too sexy and too fast.  The elders said we have no sense of modesty. I hadn’t heard that word in a very long time.

It occurs to me that there are two extremes in our global culture. Both exploit women’s bodies. Both have lead us to believe that how our bodies look is more important than who are.  Both have fooled us into believing that our looks are what speak first instead of our character.  One tradition uses the exaggerated and distorted version of our curves and skin and hair to create profit. The other hides our curves and skin and hair to honor the interpretation of a religion.  Whichever we may have bought into, we are allowing ourselves to be emotionally, physically and spiritually fooled.  We are NOT our bodies.  Sure we are in these fabulous skins and lets enjoy them! but, don’t be fooled into believing you are what the eye sees.

I know you have heard before that we are magnificent creatures regardless of how we look. We are creative, intelligent, strong, innovative, nurturing and have a plethora of attributes that serve our communities both small and large. You know that dressing up or down, modestly or provocatively should be our choice determined by us rather than law, either implied or enforced.  And yes, I recognize the reality of this deep seeded notion that our appearance means so much.   I also know that it hasn’t always been that way.  It doesn’t have to be that way.

Once again, we can learn from our indigenous ancestors. And in many cases, we can also learn from modern indigenous like the Native American, Mayan, Aztec and Amazonian tribes. In tribal life, a person earns their status in the community by what they bring to the table instead of how they look.  They earn the costumes they wear.  In tribal life, the body is sacred or at the very least not used for exploitation. Within the indigenous we learn that we can come forward as a fully expressed Human Being and not be judged by what we look like.

Yes, I know we are judged first by how we look. I get that it is a hard to go against the tide.  The peer pressure to look good is tremendous in our culture. So tremendous that we alter our bodies with plastics and toxins till we ‘like’ what we see. It takes a great deal of courage to dress modestly to avoid letting our bodies be a ‘distraction’.  I also know that it is time for us to brake the silent code that says we must look a particular way.  I assert that we all try using discernment before we step outside.  Your body matters and you know people are looking.  Choose form fitting or flowing before you leave for work.  Sure, we dress to impress.  Consider what impression you are wanting to make.  Do you have the courage to dress modestly when you are wanting to be ‘heard’ instead of chosen because you ‘look good’?

I find the study of our human psyche profoundly fascinating. Knowing ourselves helps us to stand strong in creating our future. The women in our past were honored for ALL they were.  We can learn from them.  I look forward to sharing more stories with you and I welcome your comments and interpretations.  It’s when we share our thoughts that we grow in wisdom.

Men and Women Are Not Equal

Thank you for your responses to last month’s HerStory article. I like that we are in this conversation together.  In that article, I encouraged you to open your mind and consider that we have a ‘herstory’ as well as a ‘history’.  Your feedback confirmed what I was saying.  Life is cyclical. Each time thoughts come back around, we receive them differently. It was only 20 years ago that my article would have brought on a barrage of negative responses. When I first started sharing the possibility that perhaps women and men are NOT equal, I was met with comments like, “You’re holding us back”, “You should be ashamed of yourself” and “We’re not only equal, we’re better than men!”  OMGoodness!  The anger was intense.  Feminism had its fist ready to fight for the right to be equal. I got it and I respected it.  In fact, it was necessary to ‘fight for our rights’. Yet, it’s a new day and it’s time to revisit some old ideas and see where we stand now.

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The anger was fierce back then. Perhaps it was the lessons we were taught about the female gender that were completely distorted and that is what made us so mad! We couldn’t get passed the fact that men and women were not treated equally in the most important areas of our civilized lives.  The key words here are ‘treated equally’. It means not getting equal pay for the same job done; not being allowed to vote; using a male body as the general model for medical research, etc. and so on.  You already know many of the inequalities in how women and men are treated differently.

Understandably, we were blinded and infuriated by being treated as some lesser class of people. There was a bizarre notion that women, were weaker, less intelligent creatures. So, of course we had to band together and yell loudly. We had to burn bras and throw away our virginity and basically, we had to brake all the rules to make our point.  And we did make our points.  We still have a way to go, yet, all those years ago, we certainly broke the mold that held us inside a tiny square box. I have no regrets.

On the other hand, I can understand how it would seem as though we as women, were lesser in the grand scheme of things. In our limited and outdated knowledge of ourselves, we thought having intuition and insights was silly instead of necessary.  We thought nurture was more for cuddling up on the couch as opposed to bringing an idea to fruition.  We thought making relationships while achieving our goals was too emotional and possibly messy. We didn’t understand that our feminine way of collaboration instead of competition was not only healthier for the workplace and the community, it also brings forth more valuable ideas and in the long run a more efficient service or product.  We believed that we couldn’t manage a career and raise children.  We thought that Mothers were more important than Fathers in raising our children.  Much has changed.

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We blamed our distorted lesser value on the physical and emotional makeup of the female. Instead of just realizing men and womyn are obviously different. The Feminine creature has an obvious cycle that her mind, body and spirit go through approximately every 28 days. In the modern world, that cycle doesn’t fit into the corporate structure. That corporate structure being defined as uninterrupted 9-5 and 7 days a week.

There was a time when we fought to be in that structure. To be in that structure we had to suffer the consequences of ignoring our feminine selves.  We had to behave and believe more like men. Both genders miss out and suffer the consequences of this behavior.  Rather than creating a structure that honored our cycles, we have tried to mask the un-maskable. In trying to achieve this, we end up somewhere in our 30-60’s at the psychotherapist’s office, saying, “I’ve lost myself”.  When women live within their natural structure, they soar in every aspect of their lives and the entire community of men and women and children benefit.

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We collaborate rather than compete.

Through researching our herstory, we find that instead of the 7 day week structure that has been ingrained in our lives, there is a natural structure that is already in place.  The cycle women’s bodies, minds and spirits go through, is actually brilliant for creating a structure that is sound and solid on all levels professionally, personally and globally.  Healthy and harmonious civilizations of yester year show us that, like our modern societies, original societies based and structured their daily activities according to their calendars.  The difference is that their calendars were based on our moon instead of our sun.  This allowed for the same approximate 365 days. ( I say approximate because a year is actually between 365.24 and 365.26 days) However, instead of 12 months and having 31, 30, 28 and sometimes 29 days,  we were consistent with life cycles every 28 days and that meant 13 moons. Instead of corporate structure, there was a natural life structure and humanity went with that flow instead of trying to change nature itself. The feminine was in alignment with that flow.  Her intuitions and insights were also in alignment with that flow. Men and women honored and sought after her advice regularly at certain times of the cycle when her intuitions and insights were more pronounced.  We knew then that our E.Q. (emotional quotient) was as just as important as our I.Q. (intellectual quotient).  In following natures structure, we are more productive with ease instead of discipline. We have more energy to devote to our tasks when we adhere to the cycles of life. Men and women were equally respected for what each brought to the community.

As I said in my last article, I find the study of our human existence profoundly fascinating. Knowing our past helps us stand stronger in creating our future. I look forward to sharing these ancient stories with you and I welcome your comments and interpretations.  It’s when we share our thoughts that we grow in wisdom.

Let’s Prepare For Our HerStory

In general, we have a foundation of our origins through the history that we’ve been taught for millennia.  Well, that’s great if you are a guy.  Strong foundations build strong character and confidence. However, it’s evident that his-story is no longer working for women or the balance for men and women to co-exist powerfully and harmoniously. Now is the time for us to learn about our HerStory so that we, men and women, can build a better foundation for who we are as individuals with our differences and our similarities.

Consider that Life is Cyclical. maxresdefault Our Universe spins around the heavens; our planets spin around the Sun; the Stars and all creation follows in suit. Each time they make a pass, they are just a bit different. Life has happened and it takes its toll. Nonetheless, we keep spinning. What was once young becomes older; passes on or dies, to only come around again. Season after season, no two winters are alike… yet, we know to expect winter after autumn; and spring after winter; and summer after spring …and so it goes.

On the material, conscious and biological level, all things run through a cycle and return to their beginnings over and over again. The landscape goes through its cycle year after year. Each time it comes back, it is the same yet different.  They are not the same leaves from the year past, yet the tree blooms so similarly.  The earth’s waters are the same waters that they’ve always been, yet, year in and year out shorelines are reconstructed.  Erosion both seen and unseen, has occurred during the ebb and flow of the tides.  Not the kind of changes that make the shoreline unrecognizable, but a slight change. It is the same with life forms. The insects we see today are the same type of bugs from yesteryear with slightly different features showing up all the time.  The human body has changed over the years as well.  We used to be shorter, we had more hair.  Our internal organs have adjusted to meet our more modern needs.  We live longer.

On the level of conscious thought we see change as well.  Thoughts are very real for us.  A thought can lift your spirits or make you ill.  We see differently through the eyes of maturity. What we witnessed as a child we see differently as an adult.  Collectively as a people, a tribe, a nation, we understand life differently with each new hypothesis or invention or evidence. These too are cyclical. When we understood the world to be flat, we thought differently about travel, time and space.  Our perspectives as men and women and the roles we play have also changed with our maturity. In earlier days, in our collective social conscious, a bride wore white to symbolically portray her virginity.  Certainly our collective thought has changed about that.  The white dress still comes to the tradition, but the reason has evolved.  From fashion to science, we are always restoring the old to new again because we learn new things.

As a collective people, we started off as all first people did. We lived off and with the land. We were part of nature instead of lording over it. We’ve come very far from that original thought. We’ve farmed and cultivated and have grown food instead of finding and migrating to where the food grows naturally. We’ve manipulated our land to the extreme.  We’ve misused and abused and drained this beautiful planet and all her creatures and fortunately now we are returning to a love of her with our organics and animal care and energy prospects.

TaoIt’s all in the nature of things. It’s all cyclical. I like to imagine it like the symbol of the Tao. Yang follows Yin and Yin in turn follows Yang, and we spin and spin and spin. Life is constant movement and it is cyclical.

I’d like you to consider that there is no ‘reason’ for this.  It’s just the way it is.  There is no right or wrong. We accept that the tides will come and go and that the waves alter the shoreline.  It’s when we can live with the changing of the tides that we find peace and empowerment.  We learn from our past and improve when the thoughts and actions come back around. Here, I will offer you a possibility of change for your future as I offer you a different perspective on our past.

For the most part, as westerners, we have been taught history, (That’s His Story from His point of view of the Facts). And that’s all fine and well as long as we consider that there is a herstory, (That’s Her Story from Her point of view of the Facts).

Imagine you are existing some 50,000 years ago.  No electricity, no politics, no religions, no communities, no vocabulary!  We are roaming the planet with all the other animals, just figuring out how to survive. We are just as curious as we are today, however we learn from observation, trial and error.  We observe the four legged creatures that eat from the earth.  Fruit and vegetable are easily accessible. Just pick or pluck and eat.  We also observe animals eating other animals.  It’s more complex.  First the animal must bleed and die and then dinner is served.  So we learn that a bleeding creature means death. Or does it?

All those years ago, we also spent time observing each other.  In the raw, women and men observed women and men.  We observed women would periodically bleed. This blood seemed abundant and coming from their loins and women didn’t die.  Can you imagine the first thoughts in this observation?  If a man bled, seemingly abundantly from his loins, good chance he would die.  Whereas, the feminine creature stayed on a cycle.  The blood would come and go and she would be fine.  Imagine the ‘awe’.  And even more astonishing, women’s bellies would grow large and humans would come out of them!  Again, let your imagination consider these first observations.  What instinctively do you feel about the feminine gender? Start to shift your understanding of our origins and allow a new perspective.  It can only influence your life for the better

I am one who indulges in the study of ‘the feminine’. As did famous authors Carl Jung, Monica Soju, Barbara Mor, Craig S. Barnes and so many more.  I find archeology and ancient feminine studies of our human existence profoundly fascinating. Knowing our past helps us stand stronger in creating our future.

I look forward to sharing these ancient stories with you and I welcome your comments and interpretations.  It’s when we share our thoughts that we grow in wisdom.
Laura Tria

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Don’t Let Those Voices Stop You!

We all have voices in our heads.  They are the voices of reason telling us why we can or can’t do something.

Here’s a snippet of how we can start to go forward in our lives regardless of the ‘reasons’ that stop us.

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Going Global

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